10 Crazy Things That Happen When You Fall in Love With Your Life
We have all watched the movies. Two people fall in love and live happily ever after. It is a scenario that is beautifully presented in a movie, but in real life, there are many more elements that make up our existence. While people look for love from someone else, chase love, or can’t find it, their inner self is with them all along. When you turn the stream of love towards yourself and your own life, truly magical things happen.
You Find Your Hobbies and Make Time For Them
Of course, being in a relationship with another is a great thing. There are many things in your own life that could make you happy. There are many activities that you may find that you have a passion for. It may even be something that you do not know about. It could be exercising, reading, writing, or playing an instrument. When you do not have a relationship, you can use the extra time and energy to find things that you love doing and spend as much time as you can with them. When you are satisfied with your own life, you will become like a magnet to others as well, so you do not have to look for others and chase after a potential partner.
You Do Instead of Dream
Dreaming about what you want is the first step to knowing what you want. But when you start loving your life, you do not waste a single minute in daydreaming or just thinking about things. Sometimes, you may experience roadblocks that stop you from living to the full and don’t know why that is or what you can do about it. The method on this website here explains how you can find yourself again and live your life. You find things that you can involve yourself with around you. You can live in an inspired manner wherever you are. You are no longer a passive character in your own fairy tale, but someone who makes things happen.
You Appreciate The Small Things In Life
You know the feeling when you are so much in your head with all kinds of thoughts that life just passes by? Remember how everything had a greater significance when you were a child and how everything was brighter and more colorful? That is what happens when you begin loving your life again — suddenly the sunset, a beautiful tree, or your pet has a much deeper meaning that you can feel. The little things that were unimportant suddenly become a central focus in your day and bring you joy that you did not think possible.
You Spend Time in Nature
Now that things around you have more value, you will find that nature is the source of most simple joys in life. Just a simple walk in the park can make you feel elated and relaxed. You can also begin biking, hiking, or sitting somewhere in nature. Each butterfly and flower will be so dear to you that you will just want to go there again and again in your spare time.
You Are Fulfilled With Your Daily Life
When you begin loving you and your life, you will stop looking for a specific relationship to make you feel complete and whole. You will feel complete with just the people around you. The experiences you have on a daily basis and the memories you have with it are going to be enough to make you feel like you are living the life you are supposed to live. You will be more appreciative of the people that are already in your life and will have better relationships with them.
You Admire Yourself and Your Experience
When you fall in love with your life, you will learn that to value yourself is the greatest gift that you can give. You will start to see how the events in your life brought you to where you are now. You will no longer suffer for the past, but will love every step of the way that brought to where you are now. You value yourself and the person that you have become and will continue on becoming.
You Do Not Chase Others
When we are in love with another but fail to love ourselves first, embarrassing and painful situations can happen. Too often people chase another person desperately because they hope to be given what they have not provided for themselves. This pushes others away and leads to deeper feelings of low self-worth. When you love yourself, you fill this hole yourself and no longer chase after another. It is then that you can forge great relationships — when you are passionate about your own self, your life, and other things you love.
Stronger Connection With the Divine
When we are young, most of us are taught to pray and keep a connection with the divine. While we may try to do it mechanically, the true connection happens when we connect to our own self. After this happens, you can really learn how to pray and be thankful. Your prayers will no longer be ones of desperation, but more often prayers of gratefulness and respect for the purpose of your life and being.
You Constantly Improve
When you love yourself, you will begin to go for your purpose, goals, and dreams in life. While you love where you are, you will have a stable ground on which to step on for the next part of your life. You will be stronger in moving forth towards things that you have always dreamed of doing, having, or being. You will realize your potential and move every single day towards fulfilling a part of it.
You Listen More
When you are fulfilled inside yourself, you want to reach out to others and are more open to what they have to offer. You want to learn more about life and are ready to learn from others. You are willing to hear what others have to say and also be a support for those that may need your guidance.
Loving yourself is the first step to become the main character and author of your own life story. It is the solid ground from which all other things can be reached. Make loving yourself and your own life your first priority, and you will witness how those miracles unfold for you.
Jimayda Banaag says
My husband should read this one mmy. He is the type of person that feels sad when there’s something he can’t afford for himself or for us especially for the kids. I always tell him to be contented and that we are happy for what he can provide. Me too, there are times that I feel worthless being a full-time housewife. But I have realized that we will feel great when we learn to love ourselves. And be grateful for each things we have in our life.
Joyce Ey says
Life is too short para mabuhay sa hatred at sayangin lang sa walang kwenta. Dapat talaga ineenjoy natin every moment para maging positive lang tayo sa buhay.