On Child Development: Red Flags to watch out for
Last time, on my post WHEN TO ASK FOR HELP, I mentioned that you need to be aware of the red flags on your child’s development. This list was also my basis when I noticed something odd with my own child’s developmental years. They said “do not compare your kids to others” but during the developmental years, it is advisable to be aware of those delays to be able to make early interventions.
If your child shows two or more of these signs, please ask professional evaluation from a Developmental Pediatrician. I do believe that early intervention is the key to the greatest possible outcome for children with such issues.
The list I got starts from 1 month old, but I don’t want you to focus on that too early. Let’s start when the child is about a year older or so
Developmental Red Flags (12 to 24 months)
- Cannot walk by 18 months
- Fails to develop a mature heel-toe walking pattern after several months of walking, or walks exclusively on toes
- Does not speak at least 15 words by 18 months
- Does not use two-word sentences by age 2
- By 15 months does not seem to know the function of common household objects (brush, telephone, bell, fork, spoon)
- Does not imitate actions or words by 24 mos.
- Does not follow simple one-step instructions by 24 mos.
Developmental Red Flags (24 to 36 months)
- Frequent falling and difficulty with stairs
- Persistent drooling or very unclear speech
- Inability to build a tower of more than 4 blocks
- Difficulty manipulating small objects
- Inability to copy a circle by 3 years old
- Inability to communicate in short phrases
- No involvement in pretend play
- Failure to understand simple instructions
- Little interest in other children
- Extreme difficulty separating from
primary caregiver
Developmental Red Flags (3 to 4 years)
- Cannot jump in place
- Cannot ride a trike
- Cannot grasp a crayon between thumb and fingers
- Has difficulty scribbling
- Cannot copy a circle
- Cannot stack 4 blocks
- Still clings or cries when parents leave him
- Shows no interest in interactive games
- Ignores other children
- Doesn’t respond to people outside the family
- Doesn’t engage in fantasy play
- Resists dressing, sleeping, using the toilet
- Lashes out without any self-control when angry or upset
- Doesn’t use sentences of more than three words
- Doesn’t use “me” or “you” appropriately
Here’s another one, you can print this copy if you want.
https://www.childrens.health.qld.gov.au
May mga nagtatanong sa’kin, pag may 3 or more na sa red flags, may Autism na ba anak ko?
I am not a professional to confirm that, but to give you an idea here is a list of possible “red flags” that most kids diagnosed with autism have:
- Not respond to their name by 12 months of age
- Not point at objects to show interest (point at an airplane flying over) by 14 months
- Not play “pretend” games (pretend to “feed” a doll) by 18 months
- Avoid eye contact and want to be alone
- Have trouble understanding other people’s feelings or talking about their own feelings
- Have delayed speech and language skills
- Repeat words or phrases over and over (echolalia)
- Give unrelated answers to questions
- Get upset by minor changes
- Have obsessive interests
- Flap their hands, rock their body, or spin in circles
- Have unusual reactions to the way things sound, smell, taste, look, or feel
- Has flat or inappropriate facial expressions
- Does not understand personal space boundaries
- Avoids or resists physical contact
- Reverses pronouns (e.g., says “you” instead of “I”)
- Does not point or respond to pointing
- Uses few or no gestures (e.g., does not wave goodbye)
- Lines up toys or other objects
- Likes parts of objects (e.g., wheels)
Other Symptoms
Some people with ASD have other symptoms. These might include:
- Hyperactivity (very active)
- Impulsivity (acting without thinking)
- Short attention span
- Aggression
- Causing self injury
- Temper tantrums
- Unusual eating and sleeping habits
- Unusual mood or emotional reactions
- Lack of fear or more fear than expected
- Unusual reactions to the way things sound, smell, taste, look, or feel
If you checked 3 or more of the red flags, here’s my LIST OF DEVELOPMENTAL PEDIATRICIANS if you want to have a professional evaluation.
ref: https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/signs.html
Love Compoc says
Thanks Mommy. Ako kabado nga for my kids development buti etong pangatlo ko okay naman. Kay eldest kasi noon may signs na hyperactivity at self injury. Dami na nagsabi na ipacheck daw dahil kakaiba siya super hyper talaga at inuuntog din ang ulo. Normal lang daw sa age nya at now na 10 na siya okay naman. Mahalaga talaga na observant din tayo. Hindi naman sa pagkukumpara pero maigi na malaman na natin for early assessment
Thoots says
This is super helpful mommy Levy. Thanks for this info. 😊
Roselle says
thank you for this po. Very helpful po
Queenie Mance says
Salamat po sa information Mommy Levy malaking bagay ito na alam natin ang ngyayari sa ating mga kids hbng lumalaki
Joesaint Neiliza G. Parada says
This is really helpful. Yung kala ng iba wala lang pero red flag na pala…
Anafe Compoc says
Thank you momshie Levy for sharing this informative blog..laking tulong din po ito para sa mga mommy na hindi aware sa mga bagay bagay lalo na pagdating sa kalusugan ng mga anak 👍👍👍must-share this blog👍
Aminah says
Thank you for sharing this very informative article.
Nhet Mendoza says
Thank you for this Mommy Levy! Thank God okay na okay ang anak ko. Ishashare ko ito para inform din ang iba about sa ganitong sitwasyon.
Jessica Bathan says
Laking tulong nito mommy levy. Sa mga need ng idea at kaalaman. 😊
Cyrile Oliveros says
Thank you po for this important infos… Now i can check if may late development ang bunso ko…
Me-an Fadre-Galuza says
Thanks Mommy Levs. Very informative
Jennifer Londe says
Wow this is nice to read mommy thank you for sharing butin nalang wala sa red flags ang sign ang pag laki ng aking baby mommy bago pa siya mag one year old nakakalakad na siya.